Life gets in the way.
That's what everybody seems to be telling me these days.
I always hear a lot of this around holiday seasons, like the one we're in the middle of now, in the U.S.
But what exactly does it mean when you say "life gets in the way?"
Obviously, you always have to deal with "real life" issues that take you away from your business focus.
I think that the "life gets in the way" issue just means that you have more to deal with than usual.
If you have a dentist appointment, you go to it, come home and get back to work.
No big deal.
But if you have a big dental issue, and have to go to the dentist 3 times in a single week for major work...
then you come home and don't even have the energy or clarity to work on your blog...
then you say that life gets in the way.
So holiday season, everybody's telling me they can't stay focused b/c so much else is happening with family, shopping, cooking, traveling and all that.
So, here's what I suggest you do when life gets in your way this holiday season. Never skip 2 days in a row. That's my hot tip. ==> Sizzle <== Say you have to go shopping. Now, you have to take an entire day away from your blog or affiliate campaign. Don't feel guilty. Don't get all confused and overwhelmed b/c you know you neglected some things on your blog. Enjoy the day. Get your shopping done and have fun But, on the next day, make sure you get back to your business. Even if the next day you have another million things to do... make sure to get back to your blog or biz. It doesn't have to be all day. If your typical online work day is 5 hours, for instance, get back to your computer and get some essential things done for 1 or 2 hours, at least. Even 1 hour! I'll tell you why this is so very important. Running a successful online business requires that you take action. Taking action from a dead standstill is very hard. If you have to write a blog post, you have no idea what to write, you don't feel like doing it, yet you're staring at a white screen and wondering where to begin... that's a standstill. Once you get your idea and put together a 3 point outline for it, the page is no longer white. You've got some text. You have taken action. Come back the next day to continue working on it and guess what. You're not starting from a standstill. The project has begun. It's so much easier to get into the flow on the second day b/c you have an outline to work from, maybe even a paragraph or 2 that you've jotted down. This is what we call momentum. You're picking up where you left off, and just keeping the ball rolling. It takes far less effort to keep a ball rolling once it's in motion, than trying to budge it from a motionless standstill. When you put in just one hour a day, consistently, during a rough time when life's getting in your way... you are keeping your business rolling. You're moving in the right direction, and most of all, you are moving... You are maintaining momentum. If you stay away from your blog for 2 or 3 days in a row, guess what happens. You lose momentum. You lose clarity. You forget what you were trying to accomplish and now it's like having to start all over again. Don't lose your momentum. Do you know how many people I've seen quit their business altogether because they got away from it too long. Then it gets too hard to start all over. It plays on your head and tells you "I just can't do this." That's because you've made it seem hard. You've put yourself in a position of having to take action from a standstill instead of simply maintaining your momentum. When the time comes that you can get back to your 5 hour, or 8 hour or whatever... workday... It flows smoothly b/c you're in the groove, you're in motion, now you just need to pick up the pace. How's your life these days? Is it getting in your way? How do you handle your blog 'n biz when it does? While you're thinking through those issues, take a moment to let me know how your Friday blueprint is shaping up this week. Hit the Reply and keep me in the loop. Talk soon, Donna -Donna & David- Whirlwind Success
================== >> ==> Here's what my "Friday Focus Group" is all about. ================== >>
This is not a "group" in the official sense.
I didn't wake up and say "I think I'll start this thing..."
But I've been talking some lately about how I use Friday as a focus day.
I create my Blueprint for the next week each Friday.
Then, starting Monday morning, I know exactly what I've got to do in order to accomplish my goals for the week.
On a larger scale, I see my weekly goals as baby steps toward achieving my "Big Goal".
I usually set a "Big Goal" as a 6 to 8 week goal that I really want to reach.
That, of course, is a milestone toward achieving my big, big, big goal... operating a successful online business.
Now, to operate a successful online business, it is necessary to constantly strive to reach my "Big Goals."
So you see, it's all too big to do unless I put all my focus on one week at a time.
That's what my Friday Blueprint is for.
It keeps me from developing a "wandering eye" or "jumping the fence" for each new thing that looks intriguing or easy.
==> Here's the thing.
I'm rambling.
Let me stop and tell you what this email is about.
Lots of folks who are on my email list = thanks for your loyalty :) =
Lot of folks on my list have been replying to my emails to tell me about their goals and their own "Friday Blueprints."
Then they follow up and tell me how it's progressing.
A few people have been doing this every single Friday.
They tell me their goals for the next week one Friday.
The next Friday, they report back and tell me how they did, plus... what their new Blueprint is for the next week.
So they've kind of established an accountability relationship with me right from this email list.
And I've seen them grow through doing this, plus, I give some feedback from time to time.
(Hey! I usually charge for my email coaching, so you get a little freebie here for being my loyal sub, heehee)
That's it, really.
You wanna play?
Just reply to any of my Friday emails and tell me what your Blueprint is for next week.
Then, make yourself accountable to me (and to yourself)... by letting me know how you made out with it, where you slacked off, where you exceeded your goals, etc.
Nothing formal.
Nothing to sign up for.
Just do it!
I'll be happy to be your support and accountability partner.
Send me your Friday Blueprint right now.
I love my weekend reading :) Talk soon,
Donna
-Donna & David- Whirlwind Success
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